Transitional man, Not Mr.. Right BUT Mr.. right-now.....I am thinking there is something to be said for that role. not a bad idea, not a bad place to be. I can do that. Can I do that? am I lazy for thinking not? am I not interested? what do I see wrong with Mr. right now? I find listing helpful---

1.He probably talks about himself too much, and brags that he balances his checkbook monthly( a sure sign of not enough to do).
2.He looks forward to wearing wife beater shirts in the warm weather thinking that it shows off his dedication to his constant battle to improve muscular appearance, despite internal deterioration.
3.He doesn't smoke (not such a bad thing) there is something to be said for a fresh clean scent from one's pores) BUT he preaches to the choir to those who choose to smoke.
4. He holds strong right-wing political views and lets everyone know the minute he has an opinion. (not all that attractive)
5. He doesn't take the time to care about himself. Sure he showers but does he cut his toenails? What do his hands look like- can he work with garden equipment?
6.This is a biggie --- He doesn't Read - anything! ( I could be picky here, but I will cut him some slack).
7. He is afraid of dogs.
8. He doesn't like wine
9. He paints himself of game days
10. Last but not Least---He is not into pleasing me--physically, mentally and spiritually.